Good Relationships Take Constant Work and Encouragement

Some people believe if something isn’t easy, it isn’t worth doing. Others believe that effort directly reflects value - harder = more value. No matter your stand, the fact is good relationships take constant work & encouragement. People are always evolving, having new experiences, and living life. The day-to-day may stay relatively the same, but things are always changing. Meeting people where they are and nurturing them through the ups and downs of life is what relationships are all about. The best relationships have an ebb and flow where each person is giving and receiving at relatively the same rate. Relationships fall flat when there is no infusion of effort.

Though it does take action to manage and help a relationship thrive, it doesn’t take crazy, over-the-top antics.

Here are some easy but very effective ways to work on relationships and encourage others:

Learn their love language- ( to find out more about love languages book in a complimentary session with coach Robyn)

Everyone has a love language. A way that they prefer to give and receive love. Some love quality time together while others prefer it when someone does something for them to make their life easier. Ask questions, pay attention, and see how others want to be valued. Then, pour into them through their love language.

Set aside quality time- Date night is finally becoming a social priority and supported more than ever.

The rise in date night activities is a testimony to the benefits of spending quality time with the important people in your life.

Date night, daddy-daughter time, or other specifically designed time with important people is a key way to manage and improve relationships. The activity isn’t as important as the time and the meaning infused into the time.

Be spontaneous- Doing activities spur of the moment, giving an unexpected gift, holding hands as you cross the street, or an impromptu dance party around the couch are all fun ways to be spontaneous.

Surprise someone you love at work with flowers or send them a handwritten note in the mail. Do things that are unexpected but meaningful, and the bond between you will expand.

Listen with intent- Listening to someone with the intent to support, encourage or offer valuable wisdom is a blessing. Relationships flourish when people feel heard and understood.

Being someone who can listen well and offer support is one of the easiest ways to provide encouragement in a relationship.

Every good thing needs to be nurtured. Pouring into relationships with hard work and encouragement returns that investment over and over again. Your love and attention is the key to a long-lasting bond that stands the test of time.